Staying steady in the busy season

Protect two anchors

Pick two things you will keep no matter what, such as a regular wake time and a short daily walk. Anchors give a busy week some shape, and they are easy to restart if a day goes sideways.

Say no to one thing

You do not have to attend or host everything. Choose the one or two events that matter most and politely decline the rest. A short, kind "we cannot make it this year" is enough.

Keep a few basics steady

• Water: keep a glass nearby. Busy days make it easy to forget. See how to stay hydrated.
• Sleep: a regular bedtime does more than a perfect routine. Try the evening wind-down.
• Movement: ten minutes outside counts.
• Food: eat regular meals so you are not arriving at a party starving.

Keep your routines steady all season

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Make a small plan for gifts and money

Money stress is a common holiday weight. Decide your budget first, write names and amounts down on the holiday gift planner, and stick to it. Thoughtful and small is fine.

Give yourself a reset moment

When it feels like too much, step away for three minutes. Breathe slowly, drop your shoulders and look out a window. Our 3-minute reset walks you through it.

Notice how you are doing

It is normal for the season to bring mixed feelings, including sadness or missing someone. Reach out to a friend or family member. If low mood, anxiety or stress feels heavy or lasts for weeks, please talk to a doctor or mental health professional. If you are ever in crisis, contact local emergency services or a crisis line.